安妮斯顿与前夫皮特离婚原因？ 安妮斯顿与皮特离婚时说的话(3)

而两人离婚时的安妮斯顿对皮特的一段话，也成功引起了网友们的关注：

“；It‘s like the ebb and flow of every relationship，”； Aniston says. “；It’s hard； it gets easy； it gets fun again. What‘s hard to sustain is some ideal that it’s perfect. That‘s ridiculous. What’s fantastic about marriage is getting through those ebbs and flows with the same person， and looking across the room and saying， ‘I’m still here. And I still love you.‘ You re-meet， reconnect. You have marriages within marriages within marriages. That’s what I love about marriage. That‘s what I want in marriage. It’s unfortunate， but we live in a very disposable society. Those moments where it looks like ‘Uh-oh， this isn’t working！‘—those are the most important， transformative moments. Most couples draw up divorce papers when they’re missing out on an amazing moment of deepening and enlightenment and connection.”； She sighs heavily and turns away to light a Merit cigarette. “；That‘s not Brad’s view of it，”； she says， glum again. “；We believe in different things， I guess. You can‘t force a relationship， even if it’s your view of how you would like it to be conducted. Obviously two people leave a relationship because there‘s a different thought pattern happening. My goal is to try and achieve a very deep， committed relationship. That’s what I‘m interested in， but it’s someone‘s prerogative to be or not to be in or out of a relationship

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每段关系都有漩涡和波浪，有时很艰难，有时很轻松，有时又充满乐趣。最艰难的时刻往往是你想追求一种完美的境界，但那是可笑而不现实的。

但是婚姻的美妙之处就是因为要走过这些荆棘和坎坷而始终牵着同一个人的手，你能够环顾四周然后说:”我依然在这里，依然深爱着你.”

你们重逢，破镜重圆，你们将婚姻的生命无限延长。这就是我爱婚姻的原因。也是我想要从婚姻中收获的。不幸的是，我们活在一个任性的时代，总是会在有波折的时候说:”不行了，我要离开。”

虽然这时刻至关重要，是生活的转折。但大多数的夫妇都会用一纸离婚协议书草草了事， 他们不知道，自己已经错过互相迁就、互相认错、重新证明爱情的机会，那才是最美好的。

这不是皮特的婚姻观。我们的观点完全不同，若观点根本不一致，就无法勉强继续一段关系。我希望获得的是灵魂深处最忠诚的关系，但是他有权选择另一种形式，于是他选择分手。